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Lianne’s life with Rob: The rough diamond who caught her eye and captured her heart

November 12, 2020
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Lianne’s life with Rob: The rough diamond who caught her eye and captured her heart
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Wednesday would have been Lianne Dalziel and Rob Davidson’s twentieth wedding ceremony anniversary. In an unique interview, town’s mayor at this time talks about saying goodbye to her ‘soulmate’ and in regards to the life they led. Louis Day reviews.

“The factor is, Rob needed to fall asleep and never get up and that’s what occurred.

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“It’s not one thing we speak about as a group, however supporting somebody once they have a terminal sickness, the very best factor to do is perceive what they need to do.

“I didn’t need it to occur however I needed it to be as simple for him as attainable.”

Three months on from his passing, Dalziel continues to be adjusting to life with out her Rob. Yesterday would have marked their 20-year wedding ceremony anniversary the place they deliberate to have a celebration on the Nice Corridor, the identical web site the place their love for one another was consecrated in marriage.

“It is vitally unhappy. We each had needed to deliver individuals collectively, individuals who celebrated the marriage 20 years in the past.”

Davidson, a distinguished lawyer and man who devoted loads of his time and vitality into group causes, was Dalziel’s “soulmate.”

“We form of simply knew one another, he wasn’t excellent and I’m actually not. However we understood one another, we didn’t actually need to clarify something to one another as a result of we simply knew. We appreciated the identical issues, appreciated the identical films, we had been fascinated with American politics. So yeah, I haven’t acquired anybody to speak to anymore, not like him, that’s what’s exhausting.”

Whereas lacking out on the chance to mark her 20-year anniversary with Davidson is a bitter capsule to swallow, it’s also the little issues for Dalziel that sadly function a reminder of what she has misplaced.

She fights again tears when she recollects a current instance of this when she was within the course of of shopping for an annual go for Christchurch’s inner-city tram service.

When instructed a go would solely price $69, she was baffled.

“I mentioned to them: ‘Is that every one?’

“I assumed it was about double that after which I instantly realised I used to be shopping for for 2 and never for one.

“That to me, that form of sums up, you realize, what it’s like. I labored out what it was for 2 as a result of I’ve at all times purchased for 2. So in a manner that’s the reply to the query you requested about life now in comparison with life earlier than, little issues like that remind me of what I’ve misplaced.”

Whereas Dalziel is consistently confronted with reminders of Davidson, she finds solace within the pounamu pendant which hangs round her neck. Its eye-catching look doesn’t start to scratch the floor of the story behind its being.

The fish-hook formed pendant was initially given to Davidson as a birthday present from Dalziel’s household. She didn’t anticipate to see it once more after she selected it for Davidson to put on in his casket.

“She [the funeral director] mentioned she had by no means ever seen this earlier than however it has come again in a single piece. This can be a piece of pounamu that has been via the hearth [cremation] with Rob, so now I’ve acquired a bit of him with me.

“She [the funeral director] mentioned they’ve seen damaged items earlier than, however they’ve by no means ever seen it [pounamu] come out intact. Now it has come again to me, in order that was particular, I really feel like I’ve acquired him with me.”

One other tribute to their all-enduring bond will be discovered not removed from the pendant hung round Dalziel’s neck. In what was her first, and shall be her final tattoo, two butterflies are depicted on her again, representing the protagonists in Chinese language love opera, Butterfly Lovers, the Chinese language equal of Romeo and Juliet.

“The message is that he has at all times acquired my again and that’s how I really feel.”

The tattoo not solely holds nice magnitude as a present from Davidson given to Dalziel solely weeks earlier than his loss of life but additionally in its tribute to Chinese language tradition, one thing which he held very near his coronary heart.

Davidson additionally boasted various tattoos from his youth, Dalziel “didn’t like them in any respect.” Dalziel’s disliking of Davidson’s tattoos from his youth was one of many causes he in the long run acquired them coated with Asian tattoos. Dalziel now describes her personal tattoo as her “fixed companion,” protecting Davidson shut and their tales intertwined.

Their story started in 1995. Dalziel, who was a member of Parliament on the time, had been invited to talk on the Engineers’ Union about MMP forward of the next yr’s referendum on the matter.

After making her presentation, she took questions from the viewers. One man caught her eye.

“There was one man that requested extra questions than anybody else and I assumed gosh he asks loads of questions. He was actually engaged and so I actually observed him.”

Her first impressions of the person was that he was “fairly good trying.” That man was Davidson.

“Some individuals, they could smile however you may inform they’re not likely smiling as a result of their eyes don’t smile. However he was anyone that smiled along with his eyes as properly.”

Despite preliminary sights, the pair each had their doubts something might ever come to occur between them.

“Pinky Agnew who was our wedding ceremony celebrant just a few years later when she was reflecting on our assembly, she mentioned that I assumed he was in all probability married and he thought I used to be in all probability up myself as a result of I used to be a politician. Luckily for us, neither of us was proper!”

Dalziel recollects their wedding ceremony as if it had been yesterday. A smile spreads throughout her face when she recounts Davidson’s speech.

“Rob posed a collection of the explanation why he could be marrying me. After all of the totally different causes he might conjure up, he introduced it was none of those, the rationale he was marrying me was part 5 of the Proof Act 1908: No partner will be compelled to provide proof for the prosecution [of their spouse] within the court docket of legislation. He could be free to come back dwelling and unburden himself with how he had been dashing on his bike safe within the information that I couldn’t be compelled to provide proof in opposition to him. ‘You’re the lawmaker, I’m the lawbreaker. You make ’em’, I break ’em’.”

Dalziel described her relationship with Davidson’s bikes as “love, hate” with one journey on certainly one of his many bikes nearly bringing their marriage to an early finish, she joked.

She wanted a raise as much as Picton the place she and Davidson could be beginning a highway journey across the South Island with their buddies.

“The women had been going within the automotive and the boys had been happening their bikes. That meant I needed to get from Christchurch to Picton so I might get into the automotive and the one manner was to go on the again of the bike.

“He knew that I used to be actually actually nervous so all the way in which as much as Cheviot, it was nice, he was superb, it was a very mild journey, I felt that he had actually understood that I used to be nervous, I didn’t really feel nervous in any respect anymore, I used to be leaning with the bike, it wasn’t going too quick, it was nice.

“So we stopped at Cheviot to have a cup of espresso on the way in which and I mentioned to him: ‘I simply need to say thanks, you’ve got been superb, you’ve got actually revered how fearful I’m on the again of a motorbike, so I simply actually need to say I actually respect it.’

“Now, he heard one thing else, he heard me say: ‘yeah, I’m snug now you may go for it.’ So all the way in which from Cheviot to Kaikoura I used to be figuring out how I used to be going to kill him and divorce him! He couldn’t hear me punching him and screaming, it was horrible, I’m certain he did it intentionally. By the point we acquired there, I used to be in a little bit of a temper.”

Whereas this expertise left Dalziel in a little bit of a state on the time, she is now capable of look again on it in laughter. A plethora of treasured reminiscences like this one had been cast between the pair.

She speaks fondly of the primary time that they had been abroad collectively.

“We went to Paris, I had by no means been to Paris earlier than and he hadn’t both. We simply walked in every single place.

“We walked down the Champs Elysees, we climbed up the Arc de Triomphe, climbed up the Eiffel Tower, it was simply superb.

“It was simply magic and that may be a very comfortable reminiscence.”

Scotland is one other place that holds which means to them each. They visited Dundee within the mid-90s the place Davidson’s father was from.

They unknowingly made their closing journey there as a pair final yr.

“He discovered his grandfather’s grave final yr and so he purchased the plot and stuck the headstone as a result of the gravestone had been pushed over, so he had all of it fastened and had his father’s particulars recorded there as properly.”

The household plans to return to the location at some point to bury a few of Davidson’s ashes there.

Davidson was discovering increasingly out about his origins all through his closing chapter.

“I want we had longer,” Dalziel says.

“He already searched his Scottish historical past so he met up with some cousins he hadn’t met earlier than in Scotland final yr so he managed to hint that connection. However one factor he by no means had searched was his beginning mom’s historical past, his father was his [biological] father so he knew who his father was, his mom he had not searched her historical past. So he  did a DNA check and found he had Ngai Tahu connection, his nice grandfather was Ngai Tahu.

“So we had a really transferring gathering at Tuahiwi the place that historical past was acknowledged. I’d have appreciated him to have a little bit of time to analysis extra of that.

“He had began to find the Maori aspect, there may be extra to that story that his sons are discovering out which implies the story continues however it will have been good if he might have shared that. He would have actually loved attending to know that aspect of him.

“Rob grew up pondering he was first-generation New Zealander however truly he had generations on his mom’s aspect he didn’t know.”

Davidson’s perception he was a first-generation New Zealander was why he felt so related to new immigrants.

“He had a number of shut buddies that had been totally different cultures.”

He had a selected affinity to Chinese language tradition, adoring Chinese language meals and visiting the nation two to a few instances a yr, resulting in him forming some robust bonds throughout the group.

A pal of his from China, who owned a center faculty inside a disadvantaged space of the Guizhou area sponsored Iris Luo, a pupil from the college, to go to New Zealand and get a level in legislation.

Davidson gave her part-time work at his legislation agency Davidson Authorized Ltd to assist her via her research.

Luo was admitted to the bar not too long ago, making her the primary particular person in her village to own a college diploma. She paid tribute to Davidson after doing so.

“One other superb man I want to thank is Mr Rob Davidson, the founding father of Davidson Authorized Ltd. There have been hundreds of instances that I needed to surrender in the course of the years in legislation faculty, it was his encouragement and assist that led me to stroll via the darkish and stand right here at this time, sadly, we misplaced him on this robust yr however I’m certain he can hear us from the heavens,” she mentioned.

Different current tributes embody one from a choose, who made reference to Davidson when studying an affidavit that was filed by him throughout a court docket case. The choose referred to Davidson as a “tremendous lawyer” and “outstanding human being.”

Davidson was dedicated to serving to individuals out, particularly the place he felt there was injustice, Dalziel says. “It’s why he did a lot professional bono work as a lawyer. He at all times felt that folks needs to be given a chance to succeed.”

She says this was all the way down to Davidson himself being given the chance to succeed.

A bit from the Weekend Press printed 20 years in the past titled ‘Coming Out of the Darkish’ paints a really vivid image of Davidson’s life.

He was born after his father had an affair with a 17-year-old girl, a ward of the state who was residing with Davidson’s grandmother. Davidson was secretly adopted again into his father’s household the place he was raised by his father’s spouse, believing she was his mom. Discovering he was adopted in a while in life “rocked his grownup world.”

Within the piece, Davidson mentioned he believed his father’s spouse resented him, which might have contributed to what was a troubled upbringing inside a working-class household, with beatings not solely at dwelling but additionally in school and by the hands of the police – nothing out of the unusual for the ‘50s.

Over a interval of three years earlier than 1970 he was convicted of disorderly behaviour, housebreaking, willful harm, breach of probation and insulting language.

However as Dalziel explains, he was given the chance to fulfil his true potential.

“There have been 10 positions at Canterbury legislation faculty on the College of Canterbury for those who had been educationally deprived that had the potential to provide again to their group.

“He was a prepare driver, that was his full-time job, however he additionally represented the locomotive engineers’ union affiliation. Due to his energetic curiosity locally and illustration, he was seen as somebody that might give again to his group which he has performed in spades clearly so he was given preferential entry into legislation faculty.

“That is no imply achievement to go to college and get a legislation diploma. He began his diploma when he turned 32, having left faculty at 15 and he has now acquired a profitable legislation apply, so it’s an unimaginable achievement.

“I’m certain one of many proudest moments of his life was being admitted as a barrister and solicitor of the Excessive Courtroom despite his troubled begin.”

Davidson went on to pour his coronary heart into various causes, he acted as chairman of the Aranui Neighborhood Belief from its inception in 2001 which has labored for improved group outcomes for nearly 20 years now, supporting the development of the Aranui Wainoni Neighborhood Centre.

“He had come from Woolston, he had felt very a lot at dwelling in Aranui.

“I do know he felt an unimaginable sense of accomplishment and I really feel it too, I’m so happy with what they had been capable of do. He didn’t do it on his personal and he by no means took it as one thing he had performed on his personal, it was at all times one thing he had performed with the group.”

Davidson’s work in Aranui is barely the tip of the iceberg.

His dedication to the Police Managers’ Guild Belief as its lawyer and confidant for 25 years led to it establishing a scholarship in his title upon his loss of life, he was additionally not too long ago made a life member of the Labour Get together. Davidson additionally served 25 years as a board member and intervals as chairman, on the Salisbury Avenue Basis which goals to rehabilitate and re-integrate severe offenders into society. Different acts of service included serving on the board of group well being centre Piki Te Ora and the Male Survivors of Sexual Abuse Belief.

Davidson had an “insatiable curiosity in individuals.”

“He would speak to individuals in a very deep manner the place he would get to know all about their background. So if we went visiting wherever the place we didn’t know anybody it wouldn’t take him lengthy to strike up a dialog with somebody. He would know all about them in a really brief area of time.”

He additionally possessed a singular model of humour which left him with a behavior of not taking authority too severely.

Dalziel struggles to include her laughter when sharing a narrative about Davidson from his prepare driving days, one of many tales instructed by Davidson’s shut pal Dave Stanford at his funeral.

Upon the arrival of a bunch of high-ranking officers from Wellington at a railway station Davidson was working at, he determined to have somewhat enjoyable. He discovered the largest canine he might get his fingers on, put it within the driver’s cabin of the prepare, acquired the prepare working and lay down on the ground so when the prepare drove previous the delegates, it regarded prefer it was being pushed by a big canine.

Davidson maintained this sense of humour all through his closing chapter.

“He was nonetheless the identical Rob. He had an ideal sense of humour, he would simply joke in regards to the medication he was on.”

The couple got the information of Davidson’s prognosis solely weeks after attending the Most cancers Society Ball in 2018.

“It was simply an enormous shock, he appeared invincible actually, in all probability due to his bike driving and dashing. He appeared to have 9 lives, properly greater than 9 lives, he did come off his bike greater than as soon as within the time we had been married, I gained’t go into particulars, however he walked away from each of them.”

This information had initially delayed her determination to run in final yr’s native physique elections, however resulting from Davidson responding properly to remedy she determined to face for the mayoralty a 3rd time within the December of 2018.

Nevertheless, Davidson started to cease responding so properly to remedy in June 2019.

This got here proper within the lead as much as that yr’s native physique elections in October. Dalziel was in the long run comfortably re-elected for her third time period as mayor however Davidson’s response to remedy continued to wane.

“He did go on one other drug however it was not profitable in any respect. We had been simply ready for him to go on a trial for one more drug and he was going to go in for that after which the lockdown occurred and so they cancelled the trial, however then they opened it up once more and by then he was not properly sufficient to go on the trial.

“I want we had acquired him on it sooner, I don’t know whether or not it will make a distinction or not, I don’t know, you may’t inform.

“He had an aggressive most cancers proper from the beginning, it was a high-grade most cancers. However I believe we each had been inspired by the constructive response initially that we thought we had quite a bit longer than we did.

“I felt like we had been going to have just a few years forward of us however issues change.”



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